非暴力沟通 · 中文学习社区Nonviolent Communication · Chinese Community

和平的方式,
创建和平
Creating Peace,
Through Peaceful Means

非暴力沟通(NVC)帮助我们在愤怒、疏离与冲突之下,看见彼此共通的人性与需要。在这里,你将学会倾听自己、理解他人,让每一段关系——从家庭到职场——都多一份温柔而坚定的连接。

Nonviolent Communication (NVC) helps us see our shared humanity and needs beneath anger, distance, and conflict. Here you will learn to listen to yourself and understand others — bringing gentle yet firm connection to every relationship, from family to the workplace.

10,000+学员人次Learners
9 yrs深耕 NVCof NVC practice
4.9/5学员好评Average rating
温柔的长颈鹿与爱心 对自己温柔,是连接的开始Gentleness to self begins connection

学完第三周,我第一次在和女儿吵架时停了下来。我说的不是"你怎么又这样",而是"妈妈现在很着急,因为我需要我们一起守时"。她愣住了,然后抱住了我。

In the third week, for the first time I paused mid-argument with my daughter. Instead of "Why are you like this again?" I said, "Mommy is feeling anxious right now, because I need us to be on time together." She froze — then hugged me.

林女士Ms. Lin研习营学员 · 两个孩子的妈妈Course alumna · mother of two
和平,不是没有冲突,
而是我们回应冲突的方式
Peace is not the absence of conflict,
but the way we respond to it.

当一个人学会与自己、与他人建立真正的连接,改变就会从一次对话开始,慢慢蔓延到家庭、社区,乃至整个世界。

When a person learns to truly connect with themselves and others, change begins with a single conversation — and ripples outward to families, communities, and the world.

李夏 Summer Li
创办人Founder

李夏Summer Li

"我所做的一切,都是为了让更多人相信——冲突之下,依然有连接的可能。"

"Everything I do is to help more people believe that — even beneath conflict — connection remains possible."

CNVC 认证培训师Certified Trainer, CNVC 无错区游戏首席教练Chief Coach, No-Fault Zone Game NVC 书籍译介最多者Most Prolific NVC Translator
了解李夏About Summer
NVC 能为你做什么What NVC Can Do for You

如果你正困在这些时刻里If You Are Caught in These Moments

非暴力沟通不是"忍",也不是"好好说话"的技巧,而是一套可以被学习、被练习的沟通意识。

NVC is neither suppression nor a set of polite phrases — it is a learnable, practicable consciousness of communication.

本能的豺狗式反应Habitual jackal reactions 有意识的长颈鹿式回应Conscious giraffe responses
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话到嘴边,变成了指责When Words Turn to Blame

NVC 可以帮你 →NVC can help →
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情绪上来,难以自控Overwhelmed by Emotion

NVC 可以帮你 →NVC can help →
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关系里反复受伤、越来越远Hurt Again and Again, Growing Apart

NVC 可以帮你 →NVC can help →
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不会倾听,也难以共情Struggling to Listen, to Empathize

NVC 可以帮你 →NVC can help →
NVC 的四步语言The Four Components of NVC

一句话里的四种力量Four Powers in a Single Sentence

一套可练习、可复现的沟通结构,也是 NVC 一切课程与练习的根基。

A practicable, reproducible structure — the foundation of every NVC course and practice.

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观察Observation

只说看到的事实,不加评判。

State what you observe, without evaluation.

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感受Feeling

说出情绪,而非指责行为。

Name your feelings, rather than blaming.

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需要Need

连接感受背后的生命需要。

Connect to the universal need beneath.

请求Request

提出具体、正向、可执行的请求。

Make a specific, positive, doable request.

完整的学习支持体系A Complete Learning Support System

你不是一个人在学习You Never Learn Alone

专业团队、陪伴社群与全阶段课程,为不同需求的学习者提供全方位支持。

Expert trainers, a supportive community, and a full learning ladder — all-round support for every learner.

长颈鹿温柔地靠近孩子
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专业 NVC 专家团队Expert Trainer Team

系统受训、持续接受国际督导的培训师团队,与众多国际认证培训师常年合作。

Systematically trained trainers under ongoing international supervision, collaborating with certified trainers worldwide.

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专属学习社群Dedicated Community

小班共学、练习小组与同伴陪伴,在安全、不被评判的关系里反复操练。

Small-group co-learning and peer companionship — practicing safely, without judgment.

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全阶段课程矩阵A Full Learning Ladder

从入门普及到高阶培训师培养,覆盖完整学习旅程,常年持续开课。

From introductory courses to advanced trainer development, offered year-round.

课程体系Curriculum Ladder

从第一次接触,到成为培训师From First Encounter to Trainer

四个层级覆盖学习全旅程,常年持续开课;以下仅展示课程框架,具体内容将在开课前公布。

Four levels span the entire journey and run year-round. Only the framework is shown here; details are announced before each cohort.

Level 01

入门普及课Introductory

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Level 02

系统研习课Foundational

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Level 03

专题深化课Advanced Themes

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Level 04

培训师培养课Trainer Development

课程详情即将公布Details Coming Soon

各阶段课程常年持续开设,欢迎订阅以第一时间获取开课信息。

Courses run year-round at every level. Subscribe to be the first to hear about new cohorts.

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特色项目 · 无错区游戏Signature Program · MFZ Game

在游戏里,学会好好说话Learn to Speak with Care, Through Play

一套基于非暴力沟通的卡牌游戏盒子。没有输赢、没有对错,家人、同学与同事在一张张卡片的引导下,轻松练习观察、感受、需要与请求,零基础也能上手。

A card-game box rooted in Nonviolent Communication. No winning or losing, no right or wrong — families, classmates, and colleagues gently practice observation, feeling, need, and request card by card. No prior experience needed.

探索游戏盒子Explore the game box
成长路径 · 培训师培养Pathway · Trainer Development

从学习者,到带领他人的人From a Learner, to One Who Guides

一条完整而严谨的成长路径,资深培训师全程陪伴与督导,陪你从系统学习走向独立带领工作坊,成为能把 NVC 带给更多人的传播者。

A complete, rigorous pathway accompanied and supervised by senior trainers — growing you from systematic study to independently leading workshops, as someone who carries NVC to more people.

查看培养路径View the pathway
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NVC 书粉圈 · 共读社群NVC Reading Circle

和同频的人,慢慢读透一本书Read a Book Deeply, Together

与各地的 NVC 爱好者慢读经典,每周共读、线上交流;更设有清晰的领读人培养计划,与众多国际培训师常年合作。

Read NVC classics slowly with kindred learners through weekly co-reading and online exchange, with a clear Reading Facilitator Path and year-round partnerships with international trainers.

走进书粉圈Enter the Reading Circle
公益行动Community Outreach

让和平沟通,抵达更多人Bringing Peaceful Communication to More People

我们相信 NVC 不应只属于少数人。学习中心持续开展公益活动,把和平沟通的价值带给更广泛的群体。

We believe NVC should not belong to only a few. The center runs ongoing outreach projects that carry peaceful communication to wider communities.

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校园公益课堂School Outreach Classes

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社区共学工作坊Neighborhood Workshops

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公益讲师团Pro Bono Facilitator Corps

先从免费开始Start for Free

免费学习资源Free Learning Resources

不确定 NVC 是否适合你?先从这些免费内容开始体验。

Not sure whether NVC is right for you? Begin with these free resources.

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NVC 入门播客Intro Podcast

用真实案例讲清四要素,通勤路上就能听。

The four components through real stories — perfect for your commute.

即将上线,订阅提醒Coming soon — get notified
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感受与需要词汇表Feelings & Needs Lists

可打印的词汇卡,扩大你的情绪粒度。

Printable vocabulary cards that expand your emotional granularity.

订阅后免费下载Download after subscribing
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免费公开讲座Free Public Talk

完整走一遍四要素,现场拆解真实困境。

A complete walkthrough of the four components, with a live case breakdown.

预约下一场Book the next session
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One letter each week: a real communication case, one practicable tool, plus curated articles and free resources. No sales, no disturbance.